Natural & Navy patch tote bag with four aces, pink bow, seashell and KL monogram patches

Bridesmaid Gift Ideas: Personalized Totes and Sweatshirts for Your Bridal Party

Your bridesmaids are with you for every dress fitting, shower and late-night planning session. Thank them with a gift that is personal and actually useful. Monogrammed tote bags and custom sweatshirts are two of the most-loved bridesmaid gifts, and here is how to make them special.

1. Monogrammed bridesmaid totes

A custom tote with each bridesmaid's initials is the perfect wedding weekend bag. It holds her shoes, makeup, a change of clothes and a water bottle, and she will use it long after the wedding.

Idea: Same tote color for everyone, each with her own 2 initials, plus 1 or 2 matching patches (like a bow and a hydrangea) to tie the set together.

Monogrammed bridesmaid tote with KL letter patches and a pink bow
Her initials plus a pink bow: our favorite bridal party combo.

2. Getting-ready sweatshirts

Matching button-downs are nice, but cozy crewneck sweatshirts are having a moment for getting-ready photos and the morning after. Give each bridesmaid a patched crewneck with her initials.

3. Bachelorette weekend sets

Heading somewhere fun? Add a patch for the destination: a palm tree for a beach weekend, a lobster for New England, or Nantucket for an island getaway.

4. A gift for the maid of honor

Go the extra mile: a tote and sweatshirt set with her initials and a patch that represents your friendship.

5. Mother of the bride and groom

A cream crewneck or a Natural & Navy tote with her initials is an elegant thank-you.

6. Something for the bride

Bridesmaids, this one is for you: a tote or crewneck with her new initials is a sweet shower or wedding-week gift.

Bridesmaid gift tips

  • Collect initials early. A quick group text saves last-minute scrambling.
  • Match the wedding palette. Natural & Green for garden weddings, Natural & Navy for coastal weddings, Natural & Red for holiday weddings.
  • Order ahead. Everything is made to order and ships in 7 to 10 business days.
  • Bundle for free shipping. Orders over $75 ship free, which makes a bridal party order easy.

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